What I must confess is that I listened to Christmas carols today and put them on my Ipod. Yes, I am aware it isn't even Thanksgiving, but they make me so happy and excited. And holidays are even more important when I am so far from family and friends.I must also have double the Christmas spirit because David is anything but a joyful Christmas elf. (He had a bad childhood experience with Christmas) So I am forever trying to get him jazzed for the holidays.
I promised no Christmas stuff till Thanksgiving, but I slipped and had to listen to my Relaxing Classical Christmas and Christmas Baroque cd.
I must also confess that I have been deep in thought this past week. I am in the middle of a complicated issue with another wife. I have been searching for a Christian solution to the problem for months now. But the proper action has elluded me. Christians are supposed to be kind, gernerous and "nice" to everyone. But when is nice too nice? How many times do you forgive someone? Where is the line between being a good Christian and letting someone take advantage of your kindness?
The verse that has come to me quite often in the past months are:
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you." (Matthew 5:38-42, NIV)
If someone manipulates, uses and hurts me, what is the Christian response?
I must confess I do not know.


